when a hot person calls themselves ugly
I love it I love it I love it I love it.
I wish I could have been there for this conversation to observe the reactions of every man, plus the white woman.
Very interesting and been witness and privy to similar discussion when lived in Nebraska for 3 years., 94-97. I attended University of Nebraska-Lincoln College of Law. The self esteem crisis I saw among the beautiful Black women there especially the undergraduate students who felt so unwanted, undesired and unloved was distressing. Of course because all the athletes and non-athletes dated White women. And it made me livid the things that White women used to say to us Black women regarding our hair, bodies and how Black men didn’t want us because they cant run their fingers through our hairs and because of our attitudes blah blah blah.
I remember the Black Law Student Association and other undergraduate minority student associations held held panel discussions on the issue to bolster the younger women confidence and self esteem. Funny thing is a lot of the women who could not get a Black man to look their way were product on an interracial relationship themselves.
This mentally of Gus and the White women who date them was epidemic then.
I actually don’t have a problem with Black men dating and marrying White women if its being done for the right reasons. To me the only reason that counts is love. I live by the rule, “you love who you love.”
However, when the Black men choose to denigrate Black women to justify or explain his choice that is where I have a problem and draw the line.